Sometimes a family that usually functions rather well finds itself in a unique situation. Suddenly, a new circumstance arises that has put family members at odds. Or maybe it's an old issue rearing its head that family members finally want to get resolved for good.

Here are a few issues that families sometimes wrestle with:

As with many issues, there is not just one right or wrong answer to these concerns. Sometimes, in the safe environment of a counseling office, family members may feel more relaxed. Then the therapist can help define the concerns more clearly, make sure every person is heard and understood, and can help spark new solutions that may not have been thought of before.

"Feelings of worth can flourish only in an atmosphere where individual differences are appreciated, mistakes are tolerated, communication is open, and rules are flexible – the kind of atmosphere that is found in a nurturing family."


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